More than sing-a-longs
Linda stresses that hospice patients don’t need any formal experience with music to benefit from the sessions. “Not everybody is musical, but everybody listens to music,” she said. “My mantra: Music is what feelings sound like.”
And there’s more to it than just sing-a-longs. Music therapists use their observation and listening skills to add to the therapeutic experience.
For patients with dementia, music can be used to help calm them and redirect their behavior if they get agitated. It can also trigger memories of happy times – and “you get to see the light in their eyes,” Linda says.
For some who are having difficulty expressing their feelings about the end of life, Linda does what she calls “grief work – giving them an opportunity to verbalize and share what they’re feeling, their anticipated loss, letting them identify it.”
She sometimes uses lyric analysis to help them. For example, one patient she worked with had just lost her significant other when she was diagnosed with a terminal illness.
“With her, we did a fill in the blank. I pulled up a song by the Dixie Chicks, ‘Without You.’ I typed up a sheet for her to fill in the blanks, so she could put into words how she was feeling. I would then play the song on my guitar and sing it with her new words. It’s almost like a pressure valve had been released.”
For some, the benefit of music therapy is simply a source of relaxation and comfort.
“Every person is different,” Linda says. “I don’t have a cookie-cutter approach.”